Supporting Military Spouses Through Connection and Care: New York State Department of Veterans’ Services Launches Healing Haven for Military Spouses
The New York State Department of Veterans’ Services (DVS) proudly announced the launch of Healing Haven for Military Spouses, a first-of-its-kind statewide peer-to-peer initiative designed specifically to support the spouses of Service Members and all who served.
Healing Haven provides a confidential, accessible, and supportive environment for Military Spouses to gather, learn, share, and strengthen their personal well-being.
The DVS program began its rollout on December 1, 2025, with a successful first session, reflecting the deep need for a safe community space geared toward Military Spouses who shoulder unique emotional and psychological burdens.
Many experience high levels of stress, transition pressures, and caregiving responsibilities, yet often lack a dedicated setting where they can connect with others who understand their experiences. Healing Haven is designed to fill that gap.
Healing Haven is offered free of charge, supported in part through Suicide Prevention funding secured in the 2025–26 New York State Budget.
Sessions are led by Brett Cotter, a nationally respected stress-relief expert, author, and founder of the Stress Is Gone method. Mr. Cotter will facilitate two virtual sessions each month, combining evidence-based stress-reduction strategies with supportive, community-building discussion. Participation is confidential and open to Military Spouses from every region of the state.
Mr. Cotter is the author of The Stress Is Gone Method, The Suicide Prevention Family Handbook, and 3 Keys to Managing PTSD, and has worked with Fortune 500 companies, hospitals, schools, military bases, and retreat centers like Omega and Kripalu.
As trauma expert for Meditation University, he certifies professionals and trains Vet-to-Vet Peer Specialists. His compassionate, humor-filled approach combines Eastern and Western philosophies, making him a captivating and highly sought after speaker.
To maintain regular access for Military Spouses and ensure continuity of care, Healing Haven follows a clear, dependable monthly rhythm:
• First Monday of each month: Guided Stress Is Gone session focusing on stress relief and practical emotional wellness strategies; and
• Third Monday of each month: Peer-to-peer gathering centered on connection, shared experiences, and community-building.
The routinized structure and frequent cadence of Healing Haven sessions allows Military Spouses to participate at whatever pace best supports their needs, while also creating a recognizable statewide cadence for ongoing engagement.
Because the program operates virtually, participation is open to Military Spouses from every county, including those who may face obstacles to in-person meetings such as work schedules, childcare demands, or transportation limitations.
Military Spouses may join at any time, regardless of whether they attended the kickoff session. Information and registration for upcoming Healing Haven sessions are available at: https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/2F2lsRRhSKKGREwofkz7RQ#/registration.

